I dislike her disregard for anyone other than Naruto. Yes she cares for others she's not evil but how is it that it's ok for her to have difficulty deciding between
- her team mates and Naruto (putting her teammates chances of becoming chuunin at risk by letting Naruto cheat) (couldn't decide whether to cheer for Kiba or Naruto)
- her duty and Naruto (Disobeyed orders to stay away from where Pain and Naruto were fighting)
- her family and Naruto (Neji just died and i feel like she got over it too quickly, she didn't even have a resolve from Neji's death, but Naruto did.)
Also I don't understand how she "always understood him" and watched from behind trees and such, but never once tried to help him when he was seriously depressed. Like it says she "understood him" but yet she didn't try and help... So she doesn't understand him and therefore isn't truly in love with him (you can't truly love someone you don't know)